I realize this might sound harsh, but I have to say it …
More often than not, when I am speaking with a TG woman, I feel like I am speaking with a MAN. It has nothing to do with the way she looks – or even the sound of her voice. It’s the WAY she communicates.
Learning how to communicate like a woman is important. If you look feminine but speak like a guy, you’re going to send mixed signals to people. You’ll also miss out on the chance to connect with GG’s on a true girl-to-girl level.
There are a lot of differences between male and female brains and this has a huge impact on transgender communication.
Here are some of the differences between guy-speak and girl-speak:
Here are 3 way to feminize your communication:
1. Talk more
Studies show that women speak three times as much a men, so the first step towards feminine communication is to open your mouth – and keep it open!
If you’re one of those people who answers questions with one word, this might take some work. Practice expanding your answers and embellishing your stories with more details. What happened before, during, and after the event? Who else was involved? How did you feel about it? (Yes, talk about your feelings, girlfriend!)
Note: This does not mean you should drone on and on about yourself. Women are also typically good listeners, so make sure you also LISTEN to the person you are speaking with.
2. Feminize your vocabulary
If you’re going to talk more, you want to use the RIGHT words to express yourself. Men and women have different vocabularies, so it’s important to incorporate feminine words into your speech. For example:
To expand your feminine vocabulary, listen to women in real life, on TV, and in movies and read women’s magazines. Look for words you don’t use and incorporate a few new words into your vocabulary each week.
3. Ask more questions
Finally, since women use their words to form relationships, they tend to ask more questions. Men tend to tell, rather than ask. If a man asks a question, it’s to get down to the point.
Practice asking more questions the next time you have a conversation with somebody. Ask for more details or ask somebody how they felt about a particular situation. Not only is this more feminine, it makes the other person feel validated.
Remember, the POINT of feminine communication is to form relationships. Relationships are formed by becoming a better speaker AND listener.
Check out the video below for another good explanation on the differences between male and female communication.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. How important is feminine communication to you? Do you struggle with this or have you mastered the art of girl talk? Leave me your comments below!
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1 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=f77AF4B8tSo
2 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXg6W78rsLo&feature=endscreen&NR=1
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What will happen when it beomes normal for men to put on dresses, skirts and all the rest that comes with it.
Because when you're in a dresses, or Skirt most don't have pockets,
Eventually wo-MEN will wear more dresses or skirts than pants,
Are wo-MEN ready to go through all of this to acquire the right to wear fem clothing.
Will men ever have the courage to o out there in the real world instead of staying home with a inner fem fantasy.
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